My boyfriend and I had a big blowout this weekend when we were moving the big furniture items to his place. It was awful and we both yelled at each other. I've been totally stressed out about the whole move and as soon as we were bringing in the furniture from my place, he was complaining that we have no room for anything which made me feel somewhat unwelcome. I know that we have a lot of furniture between the two of us, but we need to work it out somehow. I'm a collector of things...lots of things, and he is looking for a more streamlined, minimal look. We need to meet in the middle but at times I feel that its his way or no way which makes me upset. Once we are fully settled in I'm hoping that we will be happier...just hate this transitional time where we have boxes of stuff everywhere and furniture piled up in a room....as if the holidays aren't stressful enough!
2 months ago